We work with individual Couples to create an individually tailored road map to help you overcome your blocks and limitations, and to have the intimate life you've always wanted to have: joyful, playful, connected, imaginative and passionate.
The Pleasure Temple is the creation of Anna Ramsay (www.kalitantra.co.uk) and John Fraser (www.loveandsexcoaching.co.uk), two of Scotland's most experienced somatic sexologists, who bring together their knowledge and expertise in tantra, conscious sexuality, play, BDSM and the imaginal to work with Couples in an intense yet playful way to expand their sense of the possible, and to provide an unparalleled journey of growth and self discovery.
Our journey together follows a structured yet flexible process, tailored to your unique needs as a couple. We create a safe space for exploration, growth, and transformation of your intimate relationship.
Firstly, you book a free call to get the ball rolling.
You arrange an Exploratory Meeting with both of us, in either Edinburgh or Glasgow. You fill in our Sexual Curiosity Questionnaire beforehand. When we meet, we'll get a good sense of each of you, where you are, where you'd like to be, and what's stopping you.
Following the meeting, we'll give you a customised programme of future sessions which we'll then mould with you into something completely specific and unique to you, ensuring an entirely tailored experience which directly addresses your individual needs and desires.
You start working with us, either in Edinburgh or Glasgow. Individual sessions are normally 3 hours in length, but we're very happy to be flexible if you want to work more intensely, or if you're based elsewhere.
• Confidentiality: All discussions remain private and protected
• Homework: Practical exercises to deepen your connection
• Communication: Open dialogue in a safe, judgment-free space
• Duration: Sessions typically last 3 hours
• Frequency: Tailored to your needs and schedule
• Approach: Somatic, experiential, and playful
Every couple's journey is unique. Here are some examples of couples we've worked with and the challenges they faced. Names have been changed to protect privacy.
Jill and Tom are a professional couple in their thirties. They've been together for a few years. The sex is ok, they still love each other, but they're aware it's not as exciting or new as it was when they first met, and they want to do something to change that, but don't know how. They've seen their friends get sexually dissatisfied and get divorced, and they don't want to go down that road
Ted and Anne are in their forties. They have met quite recently. They have been in previous relationships which have all become sexually unsatisfactory, predictable and boring and they want this one to be different.
Elaine and Alfie have been experiencing problems in their relationship. Alfie seems to have lost interest in sex. They've tried couples counselling but it was no use. They want to stay together, they know something needs to be done but aren't sure what.
Spyros and Maria would like the sex between them to be more adventurous, but they're not sure how. They've been to a few sex clubs, but found them a bit seedy. They're not interested in multiple partners, their interest is in experimenting and trying things out, but they need a supportive environment to do this.
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